In this article, I will show you the secret to make yourself irresistible with men that works only after a fight. It’s quite the norm for everyone to get mad at each other once in a while. As long as it’s nothing destructive to your relationship, then it’s just normal. Men are like that. Whatever you do, don’t stay mad or try to get revenge.
Even if you are going through a hard time getting over the fight, don’t try to find relief from this grief by drinking beer, or smoking cigarettes. It hurts your health.
A fight can take place due to stupid misunderstandings over trivial issues, after which there’s really no point in arguing about.
There is no rule that says that a woman cannot take the initiative to drop the issue and patch up after a fight. If you know he’s mad at you for something you did wrong, and there is still love left in your hearts you may as well bond back again.
This radical approach is the secret to making yourself irresistible to men.
Most guys will not be open about their feelings because they are hurt.
And it’s the men’s internal emotional turmoil that will keep them clammed up and not whisper to you a word of how they are feeling. A betrayal of trust can leave a deep impact on our minds, especially if it’s the most intimate of relationships. It leaves a scar behind which takes a long time to heal. And it might cause to breakups and separation. But when his woman is able to drop the negativity so rapidly and courageously, it will inspire him to love you more.
To undo the damage and turn your relationship around, you must understand what is he really mad about? And what does he want to make it right again?
Once you get close to the answer, he will stop being so silent around you but until then you will have to contend with it. Have the patience to not get upset when you try to connect but he’s still silently mad at you. Just know that it’s his natural ‘cave man’ way of behaving and when you get close to the answer he will open up.
You might have to initiate an apology if you know he’s a stubborn one and you want to get the ball rolling. If you are gonna wait for him, you will wait a long time. He might hint at what’s wrong indirectly, and then do a 180 spin and stonewall you with silence again.
But there is also no point in being submissive to his silent torture, taking the blame, and letting him stay mad at you. If you act like a doormat he will end up treating you like one. Remember that in all balanced relationships, there’s space to accommodate differences and personality flaws in the partners. But there is a threshold to everything. If he’s being cruel and unusual, let him know it’s unreasonable and have a direct talk with him quickly.
It can be quite difficult to be stuck with a man you love who is still mad at you for something you did and regret. Or something that you didn’t do! But if he is your boyfriend and you’re his girlfriend, the both of you might have some good reasons to still be together. The good news is that if he loves you, and you love him, you can trust and rest assured that there will be a solution. I know it’s hard for you right now, and if you persist it will all be better.